September 16th 2004
Some people naturally pick up the vibrations of those around them. They are empathic, meaning they can feel what others are feeling. The water signs of the zodiac usually posses this gift. To build this skill there are several practices that we may undertake. The first one is mindfulness. When you are talking to someone really listen to what they are saying and the emotions they are conveying. By concentrating on their voice you can tune into their vocal vibrations. How does their voice sound when they mention their job? Is there a higher or lower pitch when they speak their mates name? Then focus in on their body language. Are they closed off with arms folded, or did they swivel their chair so that their knees were facing you? With a little practice and people watching you will be able to simultaneously read body language and tone of voice.
An exercise for creating a deep rapport with your lover:
In intimate situations it is desired that we make deep contact with our partner. Eyes are the doorway into the subconscious. When trying to tune in, look them in the eyes. Do not see their face, or the mask they wear. Relax your mind allow the connection to come. Sharing the same breath pattern can synchronize energy. As your desires unite, the lovers become closer in vibration.
The room should be lit by candles, incense should be fragrant, and the mood quiet. Sit Indian style with your partner facing you. Your dominant hand should be in your lover’s receptive hand. This creates an energetic flow using the currents of give and take. Your bodies become a circuit for the transference of energy. Enter into a meditative state. You can achieve this by chanting, singing or visualization. Rhythmic beats such as tribal drums can be helpful. Find your own rhythm. Then feel your hands touching your lovers hands. Tune into the feeling swirling between your hands. Explore the vibrations, allow yourself to open up and feel sensitive. Allow your partners aura to enter your own. Envision both of your auras as a luminescent ball of light that surrounds the both of you. See the spheres as growing in size, uniting as the two become one. In this state of comfort look now into your lovers eyes. Allow thoughts and judgements to melt away for as long as you are able. If a vision comes you may follow it, for there may be a lesson to learn in your lovers eyes.
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